How to stop a fight between children when you know who started it. How to support the victim and teach the initiator.
When you don't know who started the fight or when both kids reach for the toy at the same time.
This does not work well in the heat of the argument or tantrum. Wait and follow these steps when everyone has cooled off.
Get to the underlying cause.
How to get your child to stop a behavior and listen to you.
Is your child being bullied? Or is she too passive with others? Is your child bullying or aggressive with others? Teach your child everyday assertiveness techniques.
If you have tried to engage your child in the positive methods outlined in "HOW TO GET YOUR CHILD TO LISTEN" and the child still didn't listen, then move to consequences.